It's been a long time since I blogged. I used to feel it was good to have a place to vent. I place where I could put my thoughts down and feel better. Then it stopped. Well so much has happened in the past year and this is the only way I can get how I feel out of my system. So here goes this is my vent,
It started last year before the end of the school year my Hannah all excited about ending her 8th grade year. Going into High School, becoming a cheerleader. Getting to go places with friends and do things just beginning to grow. But yet still a child, what I am going to type now some may think it was nothing but in reality it destroyed this child and it took a year to bring her back.
She got on Facebook one day and had a friend request from an older boy, she didn't know this boy and wanted to know how he knew her. He stated that he saw on her friends you might now, and that he thought her to be beautiful. They exchanged numbers and text-ed for a while. He then started to ask her for inappropriate pictures which she declined, he asked and asked and each time she said no. He always would tell her that he loved her and wanted her, this soon to be 18 year old boy. She stopped texting him, I wish at that point she would have come to me but she felt she had handled it. It was a couple months after that he started contacting her again, telling her he had changed, it was wrong of him to ask those things and he really wanted a relationship with her. These text messages went on for awhile, and made her feel like she was popular and this older boy really liked her. What happens next is a lesson every one should learn and teach their children both boys and girls that there is a difference between love and sex, or sexting,
There is a program out there that most kids have called Skype, while there is nothing wrong with this program deviants like this man, because he is a man at 18. This program can take pictures with out the other person knowing and that in it's self is dangerous, because once it's out there it is out there. Although the police never did get a warrant and searched his computer or his brothers I may never know if during what he had her do next there were pictures taken. This person in the name of love had this child undress for him and do things so that he could have sexual gratification of himself. She knew that it was not right but he told her how much he loved her and how she was his princess and the only one for him. He said all the right things for her to believe him. He wrote her poems
this is one \
It's amazing how one person can change your life.
how a smile from you can erase everything bad
how life seems less scary when you're holding my hand
It's Phenomenal
how fate brings two strangers together
how i survived before i knew you
how when ever i am with you it's like a great new adventure
it's beautiful
how love can be so unconditional
how learning about you is like reading my favorite story
how loving you is so easy
and i am so thankful
that am able to know this amazing,phenomenal beautiful person and because I love you.
He had all the right words to get her to do these things, But she after a few days saw through all this.and to get him to stop and her not wanting to do that stuff because she knew it was wrong she lied to him told him I took her video camera. He was charming said the right things to get what he wanted from a very impressionable, naive little girl. Still she felt she had handled it not realizing what he had been doing to her was a crime. I wouldn't find this story out till the next chapter.
He disappeared for awhile then out of the blue invited himself to meet her at the mall with her friend who had a crush on his little brother. She knew she shouldn't have gone but her and her friend were going to buy clothes for a teen dance that coming weekend. He and his brother met up with them when her friends mom went to get her hair cut, they walked around for a bit then decided to play hide go seek in JCPenney. Her friends little brother and his were partners and her friend and her were partners and he was suppose to find them. Some how she got separated from her friend and he found her alone. He moved her to a corner and began to kiss her and fondle her butt. She kept telling him no and he kept forcing himself on her. Just when things were getting scary for her an employee came upon them and told them to leave, Just then she spotted her friend and they left the story, he was enjoying himself and telling her man I didn't even get to the good part.
He wanted her to go to this teen dance with him and she kept telling him no to leave her alone.
This is the end of chapter one of this story, there will be three more
what happens next with his twin brother, the court proceedings and the end result.
Theses are her words which i will share now then continue the story
http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=10c4e7635aaddc990b73c60&skin_id=601&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url
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